Seven
Tips For Thriving Through Change - Let Your
Feelings Be Your Guide
by Cherise Greski
Change is a natural part of
life.
How we mentally and emotionally
handle the changes that we encounter determines our
level of satisfaction, peace and fulfillment. We can
either spend our time fighting change or we can learn
to embrace it, roll with it and thrive.
Here are seven tips that can
empower you to move forward through change and feel
triumphant along the way.
1) All Change is impersonal but
it feels personal. When we take it 'personally' we
prevent ourselves from seeing the bigger picture.
Recognizing that change comes to everyone, we begin to
change our situation by just acknowledging that CHANGE
IS.
2) Not all Change is bad. When
we are in the middle of change that we didn't plan for,
we may feel it is bad or negative. But even in the
'negative' changes we experience, there is a nugget of
good to be found.
3) Recognize that how we feel is
a CHOICE. We can choose to be upset, angry, frustrated
about what is happening in our lives or we can begin to
embrace it. Just knowing that we have a choice can
bring an immediate sense of relief and openness about
the opportunity instead of feeling negative about the
change.
4) Choose Peace over anything
else. While choosing acceptance is our goal, choosing
to be at peace about the change can provide a profound
sense of relief. Instead of trying to figure it out or
'dealing' with it, we can then allow our intuition to
aid us toward acceptance.
5) Become Self-aware. Ask
yourself how does this change REALLY impact you. Is it
worth your peace of mind? Then, ask your heart how it
feels about the change. Often our heads are arguing for
something that are hearts are already calm
about.
6) Decide if you are going to
row, flow or grow with the change. When we are stuck in
'solving' mode, we tend to row against the stream the
change is trying to bring us. We can immediately stop
that stuck feeling by flowing with the change. If we
embrace the change, we begin to grow through it and
feel empowered.
7) Take INSPIRED action. When we
spend so much time thinking about a change and not
listening to our heart, we do not hear the action we
can take. The answers to any change/challenge are
inside of us waiting to be acted upon. We can only hear
them when we still the chatter long enough and pay
attention. Inspired action will be the next step that
feels joyful, peaceful and satisfying.
And, to truly TRIUMPHANTLY
THRIVE change - take this last tip...
ACKNOWLEDGE yourself - find
pleasure in the journey you've taken thus
far...
It really is all about the
journey and not the destination.